Monday, January 20, 2014

Gratitude



Ever since I first came to Moshi in 2010 to volunteer with Foot 2 Afrika - Tanzania I have been volunteering at the Tumona Secondary School, a village school about 10 km from Moshi.  Before I left home, I had a phone  conversation with Abihudi Lukumay, the headmaster of Tumona, in which we planned the schedule for the science teaching workshops Warren and I will be doing.  As part of that discussion, he let me know that the parents of the students who were sponsored by Friends of Foot2Afrika wanted to have some kind of a party in my honor. I had the impression he had something modest in mind, but when Saturday came it turned out to be anything but modest.  I have repeatedly stressed that the help that Tumona has received has come from a lot of individual donors and a few organizations, but since I’m the one who keeps showing up, I got to receive the credit.  I had some ideas of what to expect, and in some respects the party unfolded along predictable lines (many speeches); but in other respects I was overwhelmed.  By the end of the day I was exhausted and elated.

 Parents and students waiting under the canopy for the party to begin

The party was scheduled to start at 11:00 AM.  Two large canopies were set up, one for the V.I.P.s and one for everyone else.  A fair number of students were already gathered at the school when Warren and I arrived around 9:00 to try to do a little prep work in our classrooms for tomorrow's workshops.  Down behind the school by the kitchen area a group of women were cooking lunch.   

 Around the edges of the school a crowd of rather dusty young children had gathered to watch the goings on and probably hoping to get something to eat.  By 11:00 there was a fair-sized crowd of parents and students waiting in their seats, but some of the V.I.P.s hadn’t yet arrived.   

Watching and Waiting

 Just Waiting

Warren and I went into the office to take tea with the School Board Chairman, the Ward Education Officer, and a few others while we waited.  The party finally got underway about two hours later.

After the national anthem and the school song were sung, Lukumay introduced the important guests and the event was underway.  There were speeches by parents, students, officials – all mercifully short and mostly in Swahili.  My Swahili has improved a lot, but I’m still not up to understanding speeches, though I could follow to some degree.  I was particularly moved by the student and parent speeches, despite my difficulty with comprehension.  Probably the highlight for me was when a group of students danced and sang songs they had written for the occasion. 

A parent reads a speech of thanks.

Students dancing and singing a song they wrote.  I wonder if they changed the words 
that morning to include Warren, or if they knew all along that he was coming.  
Either way it was one of the nicest moments of the day.

 Students Reading Their Speech

After everyone but me had spoken, it was time for the presentation of gifts.  First I was given “traditional Chagga clothes” so that I could be the “father of Tumona.”  The traditional clothes consisted of a string of plastic beads and flowers that must have come from china, a safari hat with the “big five” embroidered on the front, and a Maasai shuka.  (I later checked with Lyimo and Sarafina, who work at the Foot 2 Afrika hostel and who are themselves Chagga.  They cleared up for me that for parties Chagga wear necklaces made of bougainvillea flowers and that elders sometimes wear a blanket like a Maasai shuka.  I’m still not convinced about the hat.)  I was then given a lovely carved stick which, before being presented to me, had to be touched by parents, teachers and the headmaster.
Me Being Dressed in Traditional Chagga Clothes

 I guess I'm a real Chagga now!

 Finally the parents brought their gifts, including a handmade clay pot with wooden utensils, a handmade wooden tray made by Peter’s father, and a large mat made of banana leaves which I can never get onto an airplane even if the U.S. Department of Agriculture would let me bring it into the country.  Warren also received gifts.  This was an incredibly sweet moment.


Presentation of Gifts

I'm just not sure this mat will fit in my carry-on, or if the U.S. Government 
will let me bring it into the country.

Unlike me, who just stood there gaping, Warren got into the spirit and danced with the women.

Now it was time for my speech.  In the morning I had written a short speech in Swahili, but it really couldn’t express what was in my heart and my mind by the time I was supposed to deliver it.  I tried to improvise a bit, but although my Swahili is adequate for asking for food or for discussing the weather it really isn’t up to the task of describing the mix of emotions I was experiencing.  I tried to make a few points:  that I alone had not given all the help that Tumona has received, but that a large number of people from America and Europe had contributed; that I hoped we would be able to continue supporting the school and its students; and that we had chosen to support the village through the medium of education out of a belief that an educated person has the ability to improve his or her own life.

 My Swahili Speech

Then it was time for lunch.  While the serving tables were being set up there was music and dancing.   The students danced in the party area while the other children danced in the driveway.   


 The Village Children Dancing (the new Village People?)

As an aside, one of those kids really has the moves.

When the food was ready, it was served in strict order of precedence; I went first, followed by Warren, the officials, the teachers, the parents and the students (oldest first).  After all the guests had eaten, the other children were lined up – there was some fighting for position though we assured them that there was enough for all – to get the leftovers.  After lunch was more dancing and then goodbyes.






Aside from the fun, the gifts, the celebration, this event really brought home to me how much of an impact we have had on the people of the village through the help we at Friends of Foot2Afrika have given them – help which seems rather modest by the standards of what we in the rich countries are really able to do.  We have entered into a relationship that has meaning far beyond what we can fully realize.  And despite all the gratitude I received, what I mostly felt was gratitude that I found my way to this community.

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